Raymond P. Dame

On Saturday, June 6, 2020 our beloved Raymond “Ray” Paul Dame, 90 years of age, died peacefully at the Rhode Island Veterans Home in Bristol. Ray is survived by his three children, Raymond F. Dame, Mary Ellen Casey and Susan M. Dame; his son-in-law, Paul Casey, his daughter-in-law, Vicki Watson, his three grandchildren, Megan Ellinwood, Christopher Dame and Nicholas Casey, his two step-grandchildren, Erin Casey and Emily Casey, his grandson-in-law, Gregg Ellinwood and his great-grandchild, Tristan Ellinwood. He was the former husband of the late Eileen (Flanagan) Dame and the brother of the late Sr. Mary Francelle Dame, RSM, Kathleen Moran, Claire Armstrong, William Dame, Thomas Dame, Francis Dame and John Dame.

  Ray was born in Providence, a son of the late Francis L. and Mary (Mulledy) Dame. He was the 7th and last surviving of 8 children. A graduate of LaSalle Academy in 1947, Ray went on to play baseball for the following minor league teams from 1948-1950: the St. Louis Cardinals and the Pittsburgh Pirates. From there he served our country in the United Sates Army as a soldier on the front lines and a supply Sergeant during the Korean War. He was awarded the Korean Service Medal with 3 bronze service stars and the United Nations Service medal with 2 overseas service bars. After returning home in 1953, he worked for the Narragansett Electric Company as a structural designer until his retirement in 1992.

Ray always enjoyed going with the flow, keeping active and had a strong love of playing golf and bowling. He was a talented sketch artist and had a knack for such brain games as crossword puzzles, card playing and Sudoku. Ray was social and outgoing by nature, always meeting up with family, friends and loved ones any chance he could. He was most proud of his family and made every effort to keep in touch and be a part of their everyday lives, offering his whole-hearted support in any way possible. He always reflected on his personal life story, making mention that our outlook on our past and present can greatly impact the outcome of our future.

  In the words of Ray, “I’ve had a good life. Everyone has struggles and negative events in their life. But it’s your perspective and ability to reflect on the positive things- family, health, etc. If you can keep that positive attitude, even when you have a rough or a bad day, it’s amazing what good thoughts can do.”

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, June 10, 2020 at 10:00 AM in St. Paul Church, One St. Paul Place, Edgewood. Burial with Military Honors will be private. Calling hours are respectfully omitted. In lieu of flowers contributions to the Little Sisters of the Poor, c/o Jeanne Jugan Residence, 964 Main Street, Pawtucket, RI 02860 would be appreciated.




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Philip J Iacobacci from East Taunton wrote on April 25, 2021 at 12:21 pm
Ray was a tenant of mine in Fall River for several years. More than just a tenant he was a friend. We played golf a few times, he always did better than I. He once told me "I can put my score down before I play". During this period he always played "bogey golf". Very consistent. He was a very good man. I never saw him lose his temper or get mad. Rest in peace, Ray. Phil
John Lenihan from Andover ma wrote on August 11, 2020 at 11:16 am
Met Ray in 1986 working for electric company. We became great friends and did many things together. Golf weekends up in N Conway , several trips to Florida, Mertyl Beach, and our good friends house Ed in N Carolina. We had great times in Vero Beach , Fort Myers and Orlando . Went to Masters for golf bucket list. Played lots of golf and told many stories. Ray will always be remembered.
Bethany from Swansea wrote on June 11, 2020 at 9:18 pm
So sad to hear of Ray’s passing. He was one of my regular customers at Dollar Tree. He was more than a customer. He was my buddy, I always looked forward to him coming in for his newspaper before or after he played golf. He was a kind and funny man that always had a great tan! I enjoyed helping him find the right pair of sunglasses. Only for him to crush or misplace them. We took a picture together that I was never able to get him his copy. Sending prayers to his family. Love you Ray! May you Rest In Peace 🙏🏻♥️
Paul levesque from WARWICK wrote on June 9, 2020 at 12:02 am
To Vicky, Ray and family; our deepest sympathy. Linda and Paul Levesque
John O’Leary from Cranston wrote on June 8, 2020 at 9:15 pm
Please except my condolences on the passing of Raymond. I am so sorry for the loss. He leaves a fine legacy in his family and service to our country. May happy memories help to reduce the sorrow that you were now experiencing.
Matt Flanagan from Plano, TX wrote on June 8, 2020 at 5:48 pm
God bless you Uncle Ray. I enjoyed the times we were able to visit you and all the relatives when we drive up from Florida. I always liked the attitude you had towards life.
Vic Pichette from East Greenwich wrote on June 8, 2020 at 3:12 pm
I knew Mr. Dame because his son Ray was my best friend growing up and we still have an amazing connection today. I can only say that we put Mr. Dame through some, (well hell, lol). I have many fond memories of my childhood with the Dame family. May he rest in peace!
Donald Ibbitson from West Warwick wrote on June 8, 2020 at 10:05 am
From your old buddy Don. Your in my thoughts always.
Dennis Flynn from Narragansett wrote on June 7, 2020 at 6:35 pm
Ray, Maryellen and Susan I am very sorry for the loss of your father. Growing up next to all of you. I used to talk sports with your Dad often when he was outside. I hope all of you will remember all of the great times that you had with him
Gloria Kaye from Warwick wrote on June 7, 2020 at 2:45 pm
I will miss you so much. You were a great person in my life.